How Do I Get My Wife To Wear Lingerie?

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How Do I Get My Wife To Wear Lingerie?

- Written by Dyana Mercury. Dyana can be reached at dyanamercury@yahoo.com

Wondering how to get your girl or wife to wear lingerie? There are many different ways to do this.

Consider Her Thoughts and Feelings

First of all, consider her thoughts and feelings on the matter. It could be a case of poor body image on her part. Take things one step at a time. First, take her on a shopping jaunt. Have her model for you and tell her how good she looks.

A word of advice, you need to mean what you say. A woman can tell whether you are just humoring her or you really mean it. This can lead to hurt feelings and a fight. This is something that you want to avoid at all costs. If she likes some lingerie, buy it for her and have a private fashion show. This will boost her self esteem, if indeed that is the problem.

Some of us girls just don’t feel comfortable wearing lingerie, especially sexy lingerie. We have to move into that area slowly. But usually once we do, then the evening fireworks will definitely start.

Take it Slow and Cool Down

Again, this is a process that takes time, so don’t lose your cool or your hope. Slowly introduce the idea of lingerie to your girl and don’t sweat it! Have patience, man, have patience! Don’t blow up if she won’t wear it at first. She may be new to the idea of sexy lingerie and this takes time to get over. Again, as I said before, take it one step at a time, and you will be well rewarded.