Why do Men Cheat and More Questions Answered

- Written by Debbie Nicholson published author. Her book and information can be found at http://faithanddreams.tripod.com Debbie can be reached at faithanddreams2002@yahoo.com

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QUESTIONS

What makes a fantastic lover?

OK, to start off there is no such thing as the ultimate fantastic lover. It is just a myth. The art of making love is in part the chemistry in which two persons share. You may think someone is a fantastic lover and hot but ask another partner they had in the past, they may not think that they were either hot or fantastic. A fantastic lover as I said involves the chemistry between two persons. What they feel inside for one another. Anyone can hop in the sack for a quickie and then depart. This does not make them a fantastic lover. It is the mutual trust and attraction you share. The feelings inside for one another. A bond or connection if you will.

Why is foreplay important?

Foreplay builds up the excitement to the sexual act. It provides desire and excitement. Most women want foreplay. It helps their vagina prepare to be penetrated. It puts them in the right frame of mind and of course takes them to new heights of pleasure. Most woman love to be touched, caressed and fondled before the sexual act. Plus they love the orgasms they achieve with it. This does not mean that they will not have orgasms during intercourse. It helps build up the sensual desire.

Why do men cheat?

The frequency of your love making has decreased. He wants more variety from love making. Not ready to commit to one person,. Drank to much. The thrill of the chase and not getting caught.

And in fairness to men here why do women cheat?

She feels neglected. Under appreciated. Receives very little attention.
They set their standard too high for their man, then when he does not achieve them, they wander.
They feel humiliated and degraded by their men.
A act of punishment on their mate.
Lack of communication.
Want to have romance back.
Want to feel special
Lonely
Do not get it as often as they like to.

How can I make our lovemaking fantastic?

Be attentive, responsive and communicate to one another.
Make it special and memorable.
Make sure the person feels sexy, loved and desired.
Do not use the same old love making routines. Add some spice, like role playing, anal play, lotions, ET...
Just remember to love them as you would want them to love you.

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Feb 2008 Monthly Column by Deb