Anal Sex - Doing it the Right Way

The anus is an exceptionally sensitive area and a great place for sexual stimulation for women as well as men. However, since the anal region is considered by many a social taboo, most people are not comfortable experimenting with it. Contrary to common belief, majority of women love anal play and penetration and in some cases even orgasm during anal sex.

How To Find Out If She Likes It

You can ask openly – but this is something very few people really do because unfortunately talk about sex is not considered 'cool' in many places – especially by women. Alternatively, you could find out whether she prefers it or not during the lovemaking.

During the foreplay insert your fingers inside the vagina and then slowly caress the perineum that is situated between the vagina and the anus. If she enjoys it and makes no move to remove your hand, you could move further by circling the anus with the forefinger and putting slight pressure at the opening. Many women love the slight pressure tactic as that enhances the sexual pleasure of foreplay.

Proper Lubrication

If she encourages it and moves her body accommodate your new moves, then you could test it further with your penis. Be careful here that hygiene is of paramount importance. It is good if before you indulge in anal sex both partners have taken a thorough bath and are as clean as can be. This is very important as anal play can result in some very serious urinary tract infections otherwise. Use good quality (smooth not ribbed) condoms for anal intercourse.

Keep in mind the anal region is packed with nerves and is at the same time very delicate. Hence, you would need a lot of lubrication, patience and careful maneuvering. Start with slight pressure while stimulating the other erogenous parts of her body. The trick here is to get her on fire before, so the anal play, which is slightly painful and different enhances the sexual pleasure.

Starting the Play

When you feel she is ready push slowly into her anus advising her to relax. Go slow and allow her anus to open sufficiently to accommodate your penis. Reach out and stimulate her clitoris while doing this or suck hard onto her nipples, base of her neck or any other place she loves. Love bites at his time enhances the sexual pleasure manifold.

Once you are in, move slowly allowing her to enjoy and get adjusted to the feeling; after a few adjustment moves you could make love the same way you would normally, only try to reach as deep as you can since the pleasure comes from reaching that 'right' spot. Alternate hard and soft moves and use some rough play on her body during that time for best results.

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