Learn How to Give Your Partner a Sensual Massage

- Written by Debbie Nicholson owner of faithanddreams.org offering psychic reading services. Debbie can be reached at pms116@hotmail.com

Bring your partner to levels of arousing stimulation. Providing your partner with extended or multiple orgasms.

Setting:

Candles/incense

Romantic music if desired

Clean Sheets/Towels

Total Quiet, no cell phones, phones, television et..

Lubrication:

For Men - water based, oil based or silicone based

For Women - Water based lubricants only to deter infections

Relaxation First

You will need to relax your partner first in order for this massage to work. They can lay down naked on a table or even bed. Look into your partners eyes with a loving gaze, caress them gently.

Sensual Massage

Using your finger tips lightly stroke your partners body. Start at back move on to shoulders, arms, et.. Put lubrication in palm of hand. Do not over do it. Talk to your partner during this. Talk dirty if you wish. Use your body weight and not your arm strength. Once you have developed a rhythm move on to shoulders, back, buttocks, et..

Have your partner turn over. Begin massaging, the chest, the arms, et.. Pay attention to the females breasts. If giving massage to male pay attention to his nipples. Glide on down their legs and lightly brush the gentile area. Continue on down his/her body and repeat back up their body. Give them gentle kisses if you wish.

Genital Massage

Now it is time to really give them that massage. To bring them to new heights of ecstasy.

For the Males:

Always remember to slow down, stop or change what you are doing before ejaculation occurs. This way they learn to have multiple orgasms without ejaculation. However, please remember that in the end of the massage many partners do like to ejaculate. During the massage talk dirty to your partner, verbalize some fantasies you may have had of the two of you doing.

There are many different strokes that feel wonderful on the man’s gentiles. Firm and consistent stroking usually feels best. This is unless he tells you he does not like it.

I am going to list a few examples. You can make up your own.. It is usually best two combine two different types of strokes when giving this massage.

With the penis resting on stomach, cup his balls with one hand. The heel of your palm on your other hand will glide up and down the underside of his penis to the tip of the penis.

With one hand stroke his penis from the top to the very bottom. Now with your other hand at the top of the penis repeat stroke. Do not forget to release at bottom of penis. Keep repeating strokes while alternating hands.

Take his penis in one hand and gently caress it for a few seconds. Giving one quick up and down stroke. Now repeat giving two strokes, then three and so forth. Keep on going until it looks like ejaculation is going to occur.

It is totally up to the both of you if this ends in his ejaculation and what why that ejaculation ends.

For the Females:

It is important to remember females can come in two different ways. Either through their G-Spot or clitoral stimulation. Females can have multiple orgasms especially with the G-Spot stimulation. It is usually best to begin rubbing over there vagina, followed by clitoral stimulation then follow through with G-Spot stimulation or both.

When massage her clit learn from her what feels best to her. Make circles around it softly. Lubricant is suggested to use on your finger. When you find the spot that is making her moan and groan continue on to better satisfaction. You may want to use two fingers instead.

You can locate the woman’s G-Spot area on the wall of her vagina. Just below her pubic bone and about 2 inches in. Believe me you will know when you hit it. To pleasure this area start with your finger. Make repetitive gestures (like a come here signal) inside her vagina. You can also rub her G-Spot in a circular manner. You can also rotate your fingers inside her vagina.

Once again hot, dirty talk is recommended. Tell her what your fantasies are to do to her.

End of Massage

This part is totally up to you and your partner. If you wish to end in ejaculation and orgasms. If you wish to end in intercourse or both.

Erotic Sensual Massage - How to Tips for Men and Women