How to Strip Tease Dance for Your Lover

- Written by Debbie Nicholson published author. Her book and information can be found at http://faithanddreams.tripod.com Debbie can be reached at faithanddreams2002@yahoo.com

To Perform a personal strip show for your lover just go about the following simple strip tease steps:

Prepare for the strip:

Strip Tease Music: What is the best music to strip to? Music should be slow in tempo and not hard rock. Music that is sexy and sizzling is the best for a strip dance. You need time to tease and tantalize your partner.

Clothing for the Strip Dance: Start at your choice of lingerie and work building your outfit to the outerside. Just take a look inside your closet and dresser you will be amazed at what you can find. Do not forget to add a tie, long necklace or even gloves. There is nothing more sexier to a man than a woman wearing nothing but a long necklace or tie. Wear shoes that you can actually wear and dance in do not try 5" heels if you are not use to them. Moves that you see in the movies or at clubs done by strippers are not needed. Just put on your shoes and practice moving to the music. Close your eyes and feel the rythm. Once you feel comfortable practice with your outfit on. Make sure it can be removed with ease.

Creating the Atmosphere: Dim the lights in the room or use candles enough so that you can see.

Starting the Strip Show

Start the music and fill his erotic desires. Now sway sedutively for a few minutes and then slowly start to remove your clothing. Maintain eye contact with your lover at all times, turning around and shaking your derriere in your lovers face or any other part you wish too. Now move on to the main delight. Now move slow and remember the part of strip tease is to tease. You can move to the side of your lover and slowly remove long glove if your are wearing them and slowly run them down his face and drop it in lap.

If you are not then slowly run your finger along side their face and jaw line. Move on to whatever you wish next but keep the stockings for the very last. They must remain on till you are down to your under garments. This creates a sensual visual effect. Now continue on and flash your breasts at your lover. I repeat flash them. Now flip up your skirt or dress. Give them a peek at what is underneath. Make him wait. You are in total control.

When you are down to your undies, let your partner gaze upon them. Now kick off your shoes please becareful here as not to break anything on you or household items or hit your lover. Now proceed to the lap dance.

Lap Dancing: If you are wondering how to give your man a lap dance then rest assured. Lap Dancing is actually not that hard to do. When doing this your lover needs to be seated in a chair, a recliner, couch or stool will not work. First move in close to him and whisper that at no time is he allowed to touch you. If he does you will stop the lap dance all togather. Now at this point you may wish to remain in your under garments or remove them.

If you wish to remove them slowly slide a finger under the elastic of your underwear with a sleek smile upon your face. Slowly take a hand on each side and move them down swaying back and forth ever so slightly. Drop them to the ground and remove. Glide hands up your legs and over hips. Now slowly run them over the front of your chest. If your bra hooks in back glide hands to back and remove, if it hooks in front glide hands over breats and unhook letting it fall to floor. Move in towards his face with your chest.

Tease Away: If you so desire place a nipple close to his mouth but not close enough to make contact. Tease him by asking if he would like to lick it or suck on it. Slowly back away. Now while using the back or chair as support lean your place your breasts within millimeters of his face. Rub your chest along his and slide your face down towards his crotch. Make sure to brush your breasts across his crotch. When your breasts come in contact with his crotch give him a mock titty-screw. Lasting just a few seconds.

Get Oral: When done lick his crotch or act like you are giving him a blow job. You can even gentley bite at his crotch if you wish. Use eye contact to increase the passion of the dance. While your derriere is pointed toward him slighly cock your head and look back with a seductive look. Slide your derriere down his crotch moving to the rythm of the music. Hold on to his knees so you can brace yourself while your on his crotch grinding your bottom against him. Move your hips into him. Lean your head back on his shoulder and whisper whatever you like into his ear, the more seductive and sexual the better. Let him feel the warmth of your breath. If he tries to grab you swat his hand. Firmly remind him no touchy feely allowed. Now move the crack of your butt along his erection (by now he should be erect), use a pelvic movement back and forth keeping your face near his.

Enough Teasing! Now when you feel he has had enough teasing, turn around and face him. Now standing up spread your legs as close to his face as you can get. Run your hands from your knees back to your crotch up to your torso.

Now you can play with your breasts and nipples for him or even run your hands back down and masturbate for him or do both.

Most men love to watch a woman masturbate. Sway your hips to the music while doing this. Now straddle him and sit on his lap. Gaze into his eyes, lick your lips give him that I want your hard penis in me now look. Let him now place his hands on your hips and grind into his crotch. As the music is about to come to a close grind him a little faster and harder. Now you can tease him and leave him or give him a blowjob or full sex right there or move him to the bedroom. So you see, doing a strip tease and giving a lap dance is not so hard after all. Go ahead and try it out tonight!

How to Strip Tease and Tantalize Your Lover

Prepare for the strip:

Starting the Strip Show

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