Intimacy Cycle of Men - He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not?

- Written by Debbie Nicholson owner of faithanddreams.org offering psychic reading services. Debbie can be reached at pms116@hotmail.com

Making love is a very important part of our relationship. Especially to us females. To us it brings us closer to that man we love, adore, admire and give our heart and soul to. However, at times this same man leaves us to pain and frustration. Yet, they do not under stand why we are angry, hurt or want to and need to be intimate. They tell us not now or I am not in the mood, I am too tired, et.. Yet, we are expected most times to give in to their please when they want it. We just can not understand what the difference is.

He tells you he loves you one day, makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Adorns you with attention. Bam! Several days down the road nothing, nil, zilch, nada. You feel terribly hurt and confused by this action. Could it be that time of the month for him. Sorry ladies, nope. Although I will agree it feels like it. It all actual fact they have named this condition. Male Intimacy Cycle. Yep, I did not believe it myself till I read it. It is that time between him being intimate and loving with you then just suddenly pulling away. Making us feel like we are in a cold war zone. To us this leads to the biggest problem we have in our otherwise very content relationship. For it leaves us frustrated, irritated, and just plain hurt.

Understanding the Love Cycle

According to the male population they need to be aware of themselves again after being intimate with us. Ok, so far it could make sense. Men have a habit of viewing us as a satisfying full course meal. Complete with dessert. They eat, their content and now they need time to digest and become hungry again.

What they do not realize it causes us to worry. We wonder if we had done something, if all of a sudden we no longer are desirable to them, et.. This causes us a great amount of pain making us demanding answers from our partner. They look at us like we are nuts or blame it on our time of the month. However, ladies demanding answers can cause him to pull away even more. This makes them think we do not trust them, we no longer love them. At the same time we find ourselves checking the spot next to us in bed for that familiar lump we know and love.

Unfortunately, this cycle is normal. Believe it or not ladies they still do very much love you even if they are grouchy, grumpy and seem like the word sex has become the black plague. Have confidence that the lump next to you will once again arise to the duty of intimacy once more.

Sometimes our sexual intimacy can become boring or at least the man feels that way. To make these “male cycles” become less frequent try to spice things up. Maybe he has the desire to do it standing up, in the living room in a chair, or new sexual positions. Do not deny him give it a whirl you may also enjoy it. Try laying in bed and just exploring each others bodies. Become obedient, tell him hey honey I will lay on the bed and you can do whatever you wish. This will defiantly arouse him.

What Men Need to Know

Men you need to recognize and know that us women well we like to initiate it to. This is a brand new day and age. We like to hint at sex, want sex, not because hey we are horny. Simply because we need to feel close to you. When more than a few days or week goes by we feel neglected and slighted. Remember, we would enjoy nothing more than starting a frisky moment with you. Most of the time we do not because we never know what reaction we might receive. We hurt enough during this cycle anymore rejection can tear us apart. So please keep that in mind if we seem frisky or mention love making. If you are genuinely tired, hey we can accept this. If you simply just not are in the mood due to other annoyances on your mind share them with us. Above all please remember we need the closeness from you so please treat us with kit gloves.