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Getting And Giving Pleasure With Rough Sex

Sex often involves a little rough play as most people find it extremely pleasurable at climax time to scratch, bite, pinch (holding tight). However, there are people who love to take sex beyond the ordinary (and often harmless) rough play.

What Is Rough Sex?

Rough sex should never be confused with rape or sexual assault. The former takes place between two consenting adults while the latter is a criminal assault and offense.

The Pleasure From Rough Sex

Anything that gives two consensual adults sexual pleasure and satiation is fair game. Rough sex is a deviation from ordinary sex – and one that needs to be indulged with great caution. Some of the most common types are briefly outlined below:
  1. Gagging – this is where the woman lies on the bed or sofa with her head hanging backwards over the top of the bed, while her partner inserts his penis in her mouth with long strokes causing gagging. This gives pleasure from submissive vs in-control positions from both partners
  2. Sadomasochism – this is when pain is directly connected to sexual pleasure. This pain can be from flogging, hitting, biting, puring hot wax on the body, mild electric shocks to the genitalia and/ or breasts, piercing clitoris, nipples, penis, rough anal penetration, rough penetration or double penetration (vaginal and anal, vaginal and oral, etc.
  3. Bondage – here one of the partners is the slave and the other is the master. There is often some type of torture which include humiliation, degradation and misogyny (hatred of females) which heightens the sexual pleasure for both
  4. Fantasy – many women fantasize about rape and love a good measure of rough play and domineering attitude during sex. However, never consider that rape is pleasurable in real life. This should be done trough role-playing, which would allow both partners play their roles and enjoy utmost sexual satisfaction.
  5. Self-torture – this is comparatively a rare form of sexual pleasure where just as masturbation, one does not need a partner for sexual gratification. This usually involves in self-strangulation, tight bondage, constrictions, etc and pulling off just before you pass out.

Safety Measures

It is true rough sex if highly pleasurable when it takes between two consenting adults. Even so, one should take all precautions to prevent accidents, which sometimes can prove serious and even fatal. Take care that:
  • You have a code word which says 'STOP NOW'
  • Never leave a tied (bonded) person alone
  • Have a pair of scissors. Sharp knife handy for cutting off ropes in time of emergencies
  • Indulge in rough sex only with people whom you can trust or in groups (which would make it safer)
  • Do not use sharp or breakable objects for insertion in the anus or vagina
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