Naughty Ways of Pleasing Your Body

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My journey into sexuality began at the age of nine. I woke up one morning with raging hormones because I suddenly had breasts that were too big for me to handle. I had a new found sexual energy and no way to release it. One night I was lying in my bed and I felt the urge to touch myself. I remember touching my labia, realizing that it felt really, really good. It felt so good, in fact, that I put a finger, and then two, inside my vagina.

Growing up, at our house, however, meant keeping anything related to sex behind closed doors. I wasn’t allowed to sleep naked, or minus my underwear, so masturbation was certainly forbidden. I never let that stop me even after my parents found out about my “dirty little secret.” I’m not sure what my mom and dad expected me to do at such a young age. I couldn’t have sex, I didn’t even know what it was until the age of twelve. I don’t remember when I had my first orgasm but I can tell you that I liked it.

Move ahead 25 years to the here and now. As an adult I still masturbate at least two or three times a week. I make love to my husband and I make sure I am satisfied before I roll over and go to sleep. I don’t typically have an orgasm during intercourse so when he and I are finished he puts his fingers inside my vagina and I stimulate my clitoris.

Sometimes I masturbate and it has nothing to do with intercourse. Writing about sex gets me going and sometimes I feel the need to release what has built up inside me. If I am alone I disappear into my bedroom and come out in a few minutes a much happier woman!

Relaxing with Self Pleasure

Masturbation is a wonderful way to relieve stress and tension. Having an orgasm releases certain pleasure hormones that calm and relax you. It can also enhance your sex life, especially if you and your partner do it together. If you relax and enjoy yourself masturbation is a lot of fun.

If you’ve been masturbating for years try spicing it up a little bit, with a lubricant, or toys such as a vibrator or a dildo. If you’ve never masturbated but you are curious here is my advice:

Get to Know Your Body

Grab a mirror and check out your girlie parts. Look closely and you’ll notice you have two lips that you need to separate in order to find your clitoris and your vagina. These two lips are called your labia. The round ball above your labia is your clitoris. Get to know her because she will bring you an immense amount of pleasure! I shouldn’t have to tell you what your vagina looks like, that one should be obvious.

Getting into the Naughty Mood

Once your ready to masturbate go into your bedroom and set the mood as though you are planning on having sex. Turn down the lights, turn up the soft music and light a candle or two. It might sound silly but it’s just you and you have nothing to be ashamed of. Prop your elbows up on a pillow or two if you’d like but more than anything, just relax and be comfortable.

Touch Yourself and Find Your Sensitive Parts

Start by exploring your body and getting to know it. Touch yourself from head to toe leaving no part of your body untouched. Take note of what you enjoy and what you don’t. Touch yourself in places you might not have thought of about such as the backs of your knees, and your underarms. You’ll very quickly discover what turns you on.

Geting into the Act

Slowly and gently move your hands down between your legs and stroke your inner thighs. Next touch your clitoris. Touch it gently at first and then increase your speed until you find out what stimulates you the most. With one hand separate your labia to reveal your entire clitoris and your vagina. With your other hand lubricate yourself with the fluid from your body or the lubricant from the bottle.

Clitoral Stimulation

Tap your clitoris with your finger. Tap it faster and faster until you feel as though you might explode. This is a good thing! Once you are aroused and lubricated, slip a finger, or two, inside your vagina. Stimulate your clitoris as you thrust your fingers inside your vagina. Both types of stimulation can create quite the sensation inside your body!

Regardless of how you masturbate take time to be good to yourself. This is your time and you are the only person you need to worry about. Do what feels right and don’t worry about having an orgasm. Enjoy the stimulation you provide yourself!