Sexy Foreplay Ideas for Couples

- Written by Debbie Nicholson published author. Her book and information can be found at http://faithanddreams.tripod.com Debbie can be reached at faithanddreams2002@yahoo.com

Sex is sex. Erotic love making is the ultimate desire. Start with foreplay this can build up the steam of passion between you both.

Talking and I don't mean about how your day was either. Women and men enjoy talking dirty to one another. It starts their juices flowing. It is all about fantasizing verbally to your partner. A man loves to hear a woman tell him how she wants to lick his balls, or how she wants to suck on him and make it good and hard. Just like a woman loves to hear about how he wants to lick her clit or make her wet. For further info see:

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Now that you have talking going here start to lightly touch and caress your partner. Rub your hands slowly up and down their body. Stopping at the most intimate parts and lingering on them. Such as men gently rub her nipples and ladies fondle his balls by slowly squeezing and releasing. Lightly is the key here. For more info check out these articles:

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Sensual massage is another turn on. I do not mean the kind you get at a spa. This includes lightly stroking your partners body. The setting is also important. It must be romantic. For step by step instructions see:

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Masturbation is another great way to start the volcano to erupt. I do not mean doing this solo. I mean mutual masturbation. It was of the most intimate acts couple can do for each other. Men love to watch women masturbate and we all know most men do it. Some men may need a little encouragement here but with the right words and touch you should be able to coax them. Ask them how they enjoy watching you, how do they want you to play with yourself. Then tell them you need to get wetter. Tell them you want to watch them stroke themselves at the same time. You may need to fondle them some and place their hand on the shaft to get them going. You may even have to help them a little. In time they will enjoy the full height of the sexual arousal. Make sure you tell them how hot it is making you. For more details visit:

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Perform a strip tease he will never forget. Remember this is to tease him or her even. Never let them touch you. This brings the erotic tension level up. You should follow the strip tease with a lap dance too. See:

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You can use a variety of ideas for foreplay:

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Fantasy Role Play is another one in fantasy role play a lot of foreplay is used here are some fantasies:

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Remember foreplay is to produce mutual satisfaction before intercourse. Foreplay is really needed for women. Just like a mans penis the vagina's erectile tissue also needs to be filled with blood for penetration to occur. Otherwise penetration is difficult, painful and can cause tissue to rip. Do not forget the kissing part. Women and men both love soft, gentle and seductive kisses.

How to Enjoy Sensual Genital Massage

You can use a variety of ideas for foreplay:

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