Spice Up Your Love Life - Learn to Live Out Those Fantasies

- Written by Debbie Nicholson. Debbie can be reached at pms116@hotmail.com

Erotic fantasies. We have all had them. In reality they are what we really want in love making. Why? Simply to spice up our love life. Day after day most couples fall into the same old missionary position. The same old sexual routine. It soon almost becomes robotic. Does it have to be this way? No. Playful foreplay runs through men and women’s minds daily. We have sexual fantasies that actually can make us hot, by the sure thought of just doing them with our mate.

Recording Your Sex Acts

Some fantasies can include using a camcorder to tape you having sex, sitting on his face. Some couples get turned on by taping their sexual acts. Just make sure you keep this tapes private for your own viewing.

Please Yourselves in Front of Each Other

Masturbating in front of each other is a very hot and natural act. If he is too shy masturbate for him. Let him tell you what and how he wants you to play with. Talk dirty to him while doing this. It should really turn him on.

Time to Get Oral

Lick your man head to shaft. Lick his most sensitive part, the ridge, follow it with your tongue to the underside of his penis, pay attention to his balls. Squeeze gently, lick them. If you really want to get him going lick the ridge of skin between the scrotum and anus. Play with it. Most men and women enjoy their ass being played with. Even having a finger inserted is a turn on.

Most females would love their mate to kiss the outer lips of the vulva and using their tongues lick the clit. Gently gliding their hands up and caressing the breasts and nipples. Stimulating our outer lips with their tongue and then inserting their hot, stiff tongue into our vagina. Thrusting it in and out of vagina again. Taking their tongue and flicking top of clit back and forth with just the tip of their tongue.

The Backdoor Entry

The most common male fantasy is back door entry. If you wish to fulfill their fantasy but do not want full penetration, there are ways around it. Take his penis in your hand, stroking him hard, roll the head over your vagina. Circle your clit with it. Positioning yourself on your knees, let him follow the curve in your back with his finger and working down to your ass. Slowly insert a finger. To help relax you, have him play with your clit, rolling it around, gently pulling it out. He does not to insert all the way in. Some men love to ejaculate on your ass without going in. You may just enjoy it. I can guarantee it is on my list for male fantasies.

Other Fantasies

Give your man a paintbrush. Let him paint you. You may need a few extra coats in those special areas.

Toy with him for 5 minutes any way you want, then let him do the same for you. Watch your sexual arousal increase.

Nibble his ears, lick his nipples, tongue his navel, bypass his “bits” and work down to his toes. Go back up until you reach the crotch - Stop! Let him feel nothing but your warm breath, his resistance will be broken.

Rinse your mouth with mouth wash. It may feel hot at first for him. Just keep blowing and licking him to cool him. In a manner of speaking that is.

Exclusive G-spot fantasy. You glide his finger to the spot helping him stimulate you.

What do women want?

Actually we want it all. We want his hand rubbing our vagina. We want their fingers exploring our vagina. Rubbing our clit, licking our nipples, playing with our ass. Basically we want to feel them explore us. We want to take their hand and guide it to our vagina. We love holding our lips apart while they play with our clit. We want them laying on the bed while we kneel in front of them, or even stand in front of them, watch them enjoy it. As we caress our breasts and nipples. As we hold back our lips and play with our clit for them. We want them to tell us how to play with ourselves We would be more than glad to sit back in a chair and play with ourselves for them. We love when men watch us do it. Not only do we become hot, so do they. We want to take their hand and help them stroke themselves and play with their ass with our other hand.

Let’’s face it gentlemen. What you do not know is women enjoy playing for you. To a lot of us it is our ultimate fantasy. For when done the act of love making is taken to new heights.

As I said we all have fantasies. It is hard sometimes to tell them to our mate. So leave a copy of this article where they will see it..

Not only will it hopefully take your love making to new heights but he may learn you’re a school marm with a vixen side.